Спасибо за ответ !!!!!
Я уже позвонила провайдеру, у них нет честных IP !!!
Вот такой ужас
Но пришло письмо из Camcontact
We are contacting you regarding the technical issue we have been corresponding about.
CamContacts WebCam Server is peer-to-peer program therefore in order for Viewers to see your video, you need to ensure that they can establish a direct connection to your PC on the Video Port.
According to the information you have provided, you are using a router, your computer has non-routable IP address (can only identify a PC within Local Area Network), whereas your router is assigned the Real IP address. All connections intended to your PC are first received by router, that is why you need to set up port forwarding rules in the properties of your router to ensure that these reach the final destination. Please refer to user's manual of your router for instructions to setup port forwarding rules.
Basically, you need to forward TCP connections on Video Port from your Real IP address (router) to Video Port of internal IP address (your PC). For instance, let's assume that you are planning to run WebCam Server on port 8081 on PC, which has internal IP address 192.168.0.100. Then, you will need to create the following rule in 'Advanced' settings of your router:
Name: CamContacts
Private IP: 192.168.0.100
Protocol Type: TCP
Private Port: 8081
Public Port: 8081
Schedule: always
Also TCP port 3101 (CamToCam) and UDP port 2094 (Sound) should be forwarded to the Internal IP the same way as described above.
Note:
Make sure Dynamic Host Configuration Protocol (DHCP) is disabled on your router.
If you consider using CamContacts WebCam Server on a custom port, please make double-check if Video Port is overridden to the custom value (More->Software Options->Network tab).
When starting a session you must use the Real IP address (the one provided by your ISP).
You can check the below page for your router:
http://www.portforward.com/routers.htm
They have step-by-step guidelines on how to forward ports.
Hope this information helps, but if you run into any further problems please feel free to contact us.
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Может это прольет какой то свет !!!!!!
Еще раз спасибо